Monday, September 29, 2025

The Person who Hated People
by Steven Paul Leiva

C.D. Beekman is a University History Professor. He has written a number of books and knows a great deal about history. It is his passion, and something he is very opinionated about. He has a rather blunt personality and says what he thinks on any subject, and he values intelligence and learning above almost everything else. Most people do not appreciate his demeanor, but when he meets, falls in love with, and marries Trudee, she slowly helps him to find ways to better tolerate those who annoy him or who grate upon his nerves. And though he may not feel that he has changed, many of those around him marvel at the fact that she has found a way to turn him into someone at least a bit more considerate others' feelings. When Trudee lies dying, he promises her that he will try to be nicer, even to those he considers fools or idiots. And along the way, he becomes known as “Mr. Nice Guy,” even though he still considers himself someone who hates people.


I received and read a review copy of this book. And as with Mr. Leiva’s other books, I needed to think about this one for a while before I was able to understand what I believe was actually happening in this story. From my perspective, I suspect that C.D. is on the autism spectrum, as some of those I know who are autistic do not always understand that those they are speaking with see their responses as somewhat blunt and uncaring. Others may not realize that they are not trying to offend, they are merely stating the facts of a matter as they see them. It is this type of behavior that leads me to believe that C.D. Beekman may have been on the autism spectrum, even if he and those around him may not have ever known it. (Those who are autistic can still be highly intelligent, and if they have never been tested for autism by a professional, it isn't always obvious that they are actually autistic.)


On his own, C.D. was not a social being, preferring to spend his time alone in a library researching for historical books he was writing, but he loved his wife (who was a very social person who enjoyed being around a variety of people) and thus he also spent more time around others. And it appears he learned from her how to allow others to see the side of him that she saw, the kind and generous man. The man who cared. And while on some level he may have only actually cared about others because his wife did, he wanted to keep her happy, even after she died. And so, he did his best to be the kind, friendly, nice guy that she had helped him to present to the world around him.


I don’t believe that he ever actually hated all people. I believe that he did not truly understand people, and they did not truly understand them. And that was why he usually came across as a grumpy, unfriendly individual. He always did care about some of those around him, but not everyone knew how to bring that side of his personality to the surface where everyone could see it. And while he often claimed he hated people, I believe it was more frustration and a lack of understanding than hate.


When he became known as Mr. Nice Guy, he had never truly changed who he was, but those around him instead looked at him from a different perspective than they may have before. And while, yes, some of it was due to his trying to follow Trudee’s dying wish, I think that on some level, she wanted him to see the world and those around him the way she did. Many things can appear completely different when looked at from a new point of view


And that only really explains the first part of the book. After that, there are quite a few twists and surprises in the story. And once you get to the end, you will likely be just as amused by the events that followed his becoming “Mr. Nice Guy” as I was. Especially when you see how the story ends. (Hint: I certainly didn’t see the ending coming. It was a complete surprise to me.) 


I truly enjoyed reading this book. Mr. Leiva’s books always show a unique view of people and the world that I don’t often get to see. His books truly make me stop and think about what he is trying to say before I am able to describe any of them to others. You might find different messages within his books than I did, but I think that is one of the things that makes his stories so enjoyable. The message within the story does not necessarily jump right out at the reader, but it sticks with them long after you finish the book. And the more you consider the story, the more you discover hidden within it. Highly Recommended.



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The Person who Hated People <br>by Steven Paul Leiva

C.D. Beekman is a University History Professor. He has written a number of books and knows a great deal about history. It is his passion, an...